In 1983 I was
president of the Nova Scotia College of Art and Design Student Union. Because
of this I was invited, among a larger group who might be called at the time,
the cream of Nova Scotian youth, along with the children of the politically
connected and other hangers-on to meet the Prince and Princess of Wales,
Charles and Diana. In retrospect after the untimely death of Diana, Princess of
Wales, I have often reflected on my meeting with the charming young princess.
It was supposed
to have been a garden party on the lawn of Government House, which at the time
still had a view of the harbour. But as it was overcast and weather threatened,
the reception was moved inside the Georgian mansion to the North Room. I lived
nearby at 1257 Hollis Street and walked to Government House dressed in my
snappy dark grey Salvation Army sports coat with matching grey felt pants and
suede oxfords. Looking good in 1983 man!
I had expected
ultra security as I turned off Bishop to Barrington and walked down the
driveway to the portico where I was met by one lone Mountie dressed warmly, not
in red serge, but in a regulation bomber jacket. “May I see your invitation sir”,
he asked. I produced the invite and was waved inside.
Inside the
historic building I was directed by a functionary into the North Room. At that
time before renovations the North Room, the main ball room of the house
was essentially unchanged from the storied days of John and
Francis Wentworth and had the same look and feel and stink of death as the Red
Chamber in Province House.
Taking a glass
of wine from a long mahogany table groaning with sandwiches, French
pastries, ornate flower arrangements flowing from elaborate silver
repositories and ranges of over filled wine glasses, I checked out the scene. The atmosphere
was close with a hint of sun baked curtains and mold, much like a certain
antebellum mansion Penny and I visited many years later in Charleston, South
Carolina, which had been left literally untouched since the Civil War.
Helping myself
to another glass of wine I felt a certain breathless chill
fall over the
room as another functionary announced the immanent arrival of their Royal
Highnesses. As this reception was intended as a garden party the females in the
room were dressed accordingly in light coloured knee length party dresses with
matching hats of all descriptions, some wore white gloves. It made me wonder
from what social caste these girls came from, as they were all done up en
règle in garden party costume. It was a fair bet every one of them could
pass muster at a Waegwoltic tennis social or a Junior Bengal Lancers ball. No dykes or odd balls wearing
men’s clothing in this room.
Just as I was
taking in this reflection the double doors at the end of the chamber shot open
and a squeal arose from the girls, as if Simon LeBon had just walked in. I saw
Prince Charles first squeezing away from the crowding party dresses who swarmed
his wife. The crush around the princess was intense, but I could just make her
out. She was dressed in a beautiful cream dress with copper trim, big copper buttons and a
smart sailor hat with the same copper finish. A stunning garment and she was
very pretty and young.
I noticed the Princess seemed a little ill at ease in the press of girls as if she were
trapped. Her eyes moved from side to side looking to make contact and move on
through the mob. Seeing my chance I put my glass down and positioned myself a
little ahead of the bonnets and smiled at Diana. She spotted me instantly and
reached out. The society girls looked on with some dismay as Diana moved past
them and took my hand. I was perhaps the first male guest to exchange a few
words with her at the party. I have no idea what I said, but it was pleasant
and I knew she was just as nervous as I was, so I smiled again and wished her
and her husband all the best and faded off. Looking back as I picked up another
glass of wine from the mahogany table, I saw the party dresses envelop Diana
once again and I felt sorry for the young princess.
After several
glasses of wine and a couple canapés I felt a little more steady on my feet, in
the social way so to speak and ready to say hello to Prince Charles. Prince
Charles was done up in a nice toffee coloured, double breasted Duke of Windsor
suit and seem quietly assured as he shook hands through a steady press of male
admirers on the other side of the room.
Waiting in the
queue I employed the same strategy as with Princess Diana and in an instant
Charles’ eyes caught mine and out came the hand. I noticed he had a firm grip
and he sized me up instantly. Caught my funny short hair, bad suite and John
Lennon glasses. “So, tell me, what do you do?” he asked. I smiled broadly at
the prince. “I’m an artist sir.” Prince Charles relaxed visibly at my reply.
“Oh Really!” he replied. “Tell me are you one of those artist who it comes
easily to, or do you have to work at it?” It was really such a charming and
thoughtful question. “No Sir, I have to work at it, I replied.” Prince Charles
smiled again, shook my had once more and very pleasantly closed off our
conversation with, “Yes indeed, It’s the same with me, good luck.”
I don’t really
remember much about the rest of the reception. Perhaps it was the wine. In due course
a gentleman announced the Prince and Princess of Wales had left the room.
This was our signal to clear out and out we went. I remember the strange
sensation of walking out into the shabby real world of Barrington Street again.
I paused under the portico, lit a cigarette and went on my way through the
drizzle back to Hollis Street.
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